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‘He Loves Me? He Loves Me Not?’ Event Part 2

Our recent relationship themed event was all about celebrating love, relationships, and the journey of commitment. But here’s a truth we didn’t talk about on the day and it’s one every woman in our community needs to hear:

If he liked it, he’d be figuring out your ring size!

Ladies, if you’re not in a situation where a man is showing real intention then you may not be on the road to becoming his wife.

That’s not to say marriage should be rushed or forced. But we have to be honest with ourselves: when a man knows, he knows. A man who sees you as his future will make it known with action, not just words. He won’t keep you guessing, he won’t leave you in limbo, and he won’t let years pass by without showing you he’s serious.

Here’s the lesson:

• You can create your own deadline for when you want marriage to happen then move on.
• Don’t mistake time spent for intention shown.
• Even if you are not going to become a wife you can still build working relationships and partnerships with men to help you navigate day to day adult life.

In fitness, we always talk about clarity of goals and following through with discipline. Relationships are no different. Love without direction is like training without a plan – it feels active, but it doesn’t lead anywhere.

So, let this be your reminder: you are worthy of clarity, worthy of commitment, and worthy of love that plans for forever. Don’t waste time where there is no intention.